Making Home by Elise Toedt

Elise Marie Toedt, PhD is a writer, researcher and teacher whose research interests span gender, education, and writing studies. Her poetry focuses on simple daily rituals of present attention and appreciation, experiences of love and foibles within human relationality, and the role of care as pleasure and care as work within a capitalist social context. She currently teaches in the Department of Writing Studies at the University of Minnesota, Twin Cities. Follow her work at https://www.elisetoedt.com/.

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Making Home is a complex and beautiful meditation on the many cycles of making and unmaking in life– the creative power of tending gardens, cooking, harvesting, caretaking, and writing poetry. The poems bear witness to cruelty in others and take stock of the cruelty we ourselves are all capable of while asserting the primacy of compassion, nourishment, and love. These poems are call and response testimonies and songs about the creative and destructive tendencies in human morality, relationships, spirituality, and desire, all illuminated with dazzling language and imagery. We lean in to listen, for these poems speak with authenticity, intimacy, and wisdom. Watching her son play in a puddle she writes, “It is so simple for him to love his life, I think / It could be so simple for me to love my life.” And we come away with a reminder of the deep sacredness of caring and tending for those we love, those we struggle to love, the natural world, and ourselves.

How shall we love the troubled world? By naming every blessed fragment, by inscribing every sharp memory, every loss that won’t stay gone. By reciting recipes of everyday life and watching with wonder the ways a child moves in the world. Such are the lessons of Elise Toedt’s fine debut collection, Making Home. These poems sing with wise simplicity.